We all make judgements each and every day without realising it.  From the time that we wake in the morning until the time that we go to bed we are assessing, interpreting and judging.  Judging can be seen to be a very derogatory word on occasions but this needn’t be the case.  When we judge we are often subconsciously comparing things to our own values and then coming up with a conclusion in our own mind if you like about that person or that situation.  However, life is full of uncertainty and it’s uncertain for a reason.  Everything is fluid, everything is interlinked.  There are very few things in life that you can say are certain apart from you are born and at some point you will die.

Everything else has a degree of flexibility and uncertainty.  The decisions that we make can vary greatly from person to person dependent upon our life experiences, our expectations and our desired goals.  Each and every day we make judgements and that will never change.  What can change is how we perceive those judgements.  Our values as people are flexible.  We will change dependent upon the situations we experience, the way that we are treated and as we see our sense of purpose materialise.  As we go through the various stages of life our purpose will change.  As we grow into young adults we are finding our self, as we grow into parenthood and adulthood we are striving to achieve things that we want and need in our life and as we go into later years we are more reflective.  Having strived so very much earlier on and having learned so many lessons about what is important and what’s not so important along the way.  Very often there are no right and no wrongs.  It is like a sliding scale and that sliding scale is flexible and it is flexible for a reason.

We have to understand as individuals that everybody is on their own sliding scale with their own experiences, their own hurts and with their own goals. And whilst we can try to influence people ultimately it is their responsibility to take action that they believe is right for them in their judgement.  No one has the right to impose any views on anybody else.  Everyone must listen to their own intuition and must make their own choice.

So as you sit back now and reflect upon your world, your life, the decisions that you have to make, perhaps you can quietly contemplate and ask yourself what is important to you at this stage in your life.  What is important to you? And then and only then will you be able to answer whatever your question is.  And when you make your decision, knowing that it is right for you stick to it.  Don’t let other people’s viewpoint sway you, for your view, your judgement is equally as valid as anybody else’s.  Only you have to live by your life choices and your responsibilities so hold your head high, make your decision and stand by it.

Love & Light

Lisa

Hypnotherapist, Healer, Counsellor

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Message channelled 22nd January 2021