Once words have been said, they cannot be taken back, that moment has changed things forever.  It is then down to us what we do with those words. We can internalise them, we can accept them as being true, or we can reject them for what they are – words and words alone.

Words do not equate actions, actions do not equate words. We all have choices and choices we must make as we progress in our life. There is no such thing as truth, there are perspectives. We all see things from a slightly different perspective. It is therefore from a place of acceptance that we must base our decisions. Our decisions must be just our decisions. We are all on our life’s path. We cannot please everyone. We do our best. When we are born, we are nurtured, we develop, we grow and, as we make our own path, it is for us to make that choice and those choices as they present themselves.

We cannot look back and blame others for that was right at that moment in time. Perspective is key. We can look backward or look forward the choice is ours. We can embrace or we can reject. But acceptance of whatever has happened is needed. Once you accept something for what it is, it cannot be changed. However, what you can do is then put things in action to move forward. Just letting whatever has happened be and move on to the next important thing.

Remember the time of this Earth is limited. Each and every day counts, each and every day matters, each encounter matters, each connection matters. So, what is your choice today to be? Are you being held back by events, people, places even, or do you choose to cut those ties so that you can move forward, embracing who you want to be, embracing your life goals, aspirations, dreams even. Know that you have the choice. Each and every day the choice is yours – stay stuck or strive and thrive!

 

Lisa

Lisa Pryce-Jones

Multi-Award Winning Hypnotherapist & Healer